Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

16 January 2015

Exam is over, party anyone?



          Exam is finally over and now i wanna party hard and be crazy !! Nah im just kidding. Im pretty sure my holiday is going to be a lazy one. Watching movies, playing with my dog, doing chores etc.
I am so excited that the examination week has finally come to an end that i don't need to face the lecture notes anymore until next Jan 2016! I will not gonna be having an exam this coming June since i ll be doing my practical this coming Feb, cheers to that! Hehe..Gotta go, Arrow Season 2 is waiting for me!


xoxo

13 January 2015

My roomate's story.

               It’s crazy that I have always had things to say every time on exam week. Probably because my brain works best during those weeks. I have Marketing final exam tomorrow yet here I am pouring thoughts on my blog. Its final week of exam and one of my roommate has went back to her town today and left me with something that really really made my day today. A postcard. I really appreciate her thoughts of writing to me, I really do. I am not sure whether she will be able to read this, but if you do, I want to take this chance to say thank you for everything and I wish you the very best for your internship. I am seriously so proud of having you as my roommate and friend. Just few days ago you have conquered the Kinabalu Mount without having any training and you managed to reach the top (She has to stop at 100m away from the peak due to bad weather). I know your leg must have hurt as hell but seriously man, you didn’t give up for it. You still take the challenge knowing that you’ll be having an exam day after your climbing. And when you told me that you’ll be going to Japan this August for your internship ALONE, I was speechless. I wonder where you got that courage from. I really admire your braveness on taking up the challenge thrown at you. It has been your dream, as you told me. You really somehow, at some point inspired me to just do it and think later. I wish I can be more like you. I wish I don’t think much. Probably one day.
Sayonara Yense, I wish you all the best in Japan and see you on fourth year! J

 
Simple thing like this made my day today :)

03 November 2014

D'amitié

         Actually I have one mid semester exam tomorrow and now I am suppose to study for tomorrow. But here I am, mumbling over my blog just wanna talk my thought out.

        What’s on my mind? Many actually. But to pick the best thought of the day is simple, friendship.
Just two days ago, I have fight with my very close friend. This is my first when it comes to having sad feeling towards her. A lot of thought came across my mind when I was really mad at her. But one of the most bad intention or thinking would be, to lose her as my close friend.

        I don’t think it is appropriate to talk about what happen on that day. So I’m just gonna say, misunderstanding happened.
I was thinking a lot on that night. Thinking what is the reason of her doing that. Why she did that to me. Without considering her situation, I accused her for nothing in my tiny little mind. So when she explained what happened, I cried.

        I love her so much as my close friend so maybe when you love someone that is so dear to you, sometimes, even just little thing could make you sad . Is it? Or maybe it is me who's being so emotional here after all. But it does not matter. What I have learnt through this fight is that, whatever happens between you and your friend, be honest and talk it out. Don’t let yourself be driven by your ego. 

       To that close friend, I am sorry and I hope that what had happened will make us even closer to each other. If you are reading this, i wanna tell you that you are a kind of friend that is hard to find yet last for a lifetime.


02 November 2014

Tribute to Toh Wei Teen..

“If you think you are awaken by the alarm clock this morning, try putting your clock beside a dead body and you will realize that you are awaken by the grace of God. Life is short, you never know when is the end of your life story”.
         Last Sunday, I lost a cheerful friend. The news was out and it says that she was murdered by her drunken brother. I don’t want to believe it until now. I could still feel her present, I still believe that she is here, at least to me. I could feel her soul, somewhere deep in my heart. Though we’re not a close friend, but I see her everyday since my first year in the university. And now, we are half way through semester 5 but she was no longer here. I could still remember the first time we talk, when we were in group of Organic Chemistry assignment. It was akward to be in a circle of strangers especially during your first year, but she smiled a lot and that actually helped to ease my mixed feelings during that time. And I thank her for that. Just couple weeks ago, she and her friends went to my grandma’s house to have an interview session with my ‘moing’ (it’s a kadazan word means grandparents) regarding the Community Nutrition assignment. I’m glad that I managed to bring her there despite all the obstacles and time factor during that time.
            It has been a week since she departed, away from our sight yet so close to our heart. Last Friday, a memorial service was conducted at FSMP, UMS in remembrance of her. The room was filled with a lot of people coming from our faculty and other faculty too. I was so overwhelm to see that a lot of her friends coming down to pay her the last respect.
            Many people came and shared their moments that they treasured with her. There was one poem, shared by my lecturer. It was “Death is Nothing at All” by Henry Scott Holand. One of the phrase that hit me right away is “death is nothing at all, I have only slipped away to the next room”. When my lecturer said that the poem is comforting, I could not agree more.
            There are 5 stages of loss and grief in this life as quoted by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross; denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. If I were to be asked on what stage I am now, I would say that I am probably and slowly accepting the fact that she is no longer here. However, there was a time that I reached back to the first stage, denying the reality of the situation. A friend of mine said that, we can’t never accept the fact of losing our loved ones, not now, not later, never. Probably denying is the best defense mechanism to protect us from the wave of pain of losing someone that is so dear. Here are some of the photos i took during the memorial service at UMS.





Rest in peace dear Toh Wei Teen..
23 October 1992- 26 October 2014




26 March 2014

What is your food habit?

Malaysian Food Pyramid

One may encounters a thought, saying how boring a nutrition education could be. Some of us may never even take a look at the food guide pyramid adv that had been loyally stuck on the wall of the canteen since our primary time in school. Some of us may never even take a look at it, to even realize it was merely there including me. However, since I have that strong nutrition awareness in me especially now, I feel like I need to walk the talk. FYI, I am taking a nutrition course in one of the local university in Sabah.
So, what is really a food guide pyramid? Generally, it is a guideline for us on how many serving we should consume in a day. Before I study nutrition, I never really care about how many serving I should take in a day, I don’t know how to read the nutrient fact on the back label of the processed food, I don’t know that oily food is a bad fat food. Now, I know a lot about nutrition and I love it. I love it when I apply it during my younger age. What we are now, is the preparation for the future. If you eat healthily, exercise regularly, u’re gonna have a long life in the future. Same like the bank saving analogy, save money now and be rich later. Hehe.
Back to the food guide pyramid thingy, the first base of the pyramid is carbohydrates. As a Malaysians, majority of us eat rice every day. So, one cup of white rice is considered as 1 serving. Based on the Malaysian dietary guidelines, it is recommended that we consume at least 4 serving of carbohydrate in a day. Tapi, takkan la mau makan rice saja in a day kan. U may want to take other carbs food like bread, cereals, mee goreng et cetera. So to me, it is fine to consume oat/cereal for breakfast, rice for lunch, kueh for hi-tea and fried mee for dinner. 4 serving kan? It is the standard serving for each one of us, 4 serving a day. We need carbs for energy!! Even if u need to lose weight, don’t cut your carbs intake. Try different type of carbs that has lower calories.
Next major number of food we should consume is fruits and vegetables. I love love love love this group of food. There so many good, nutritious and benefit of fruits&vege to our body. It makes u look healthy, fresh and pretty too. And it’s really yummy !!!  It is really really important to take fruit at least 2 serving in a day and 3 serving of vege in a day. Even if u don’t like vege, u need to replace ur unfavorable vege with other type of vege. For example, if u hate green leafy vege (I know most of the people who dislike vege is because of its bitter and leafy texture like) u may want to replace it with other type of vege. There are so many types of vege in the market, u have fruit vege like tomato and pumpkin, u have tuber vege like potatoes and even bean plant vege like bendi. So, think positive and find the alternatives! For fruits, there is no harm to consume more than 2 serving of fruit tho. But I suggest u people don’t take vitamin C supplement. Get yr vitamins directly from fruits and vege which is much more natural, organic, cheap and yummy! Based on my understanding, supplements may sometimes increase/decrease the other nutrients that u may already had it enuf and may complicate your body system. Because fyi, one vitamin C does not only contain vitamin C, it may have other types of nutrient which u may already had it enuf.  Even if you are about to take supplement, make sure u’re dealing with a nutritionist /physicist before u buy it.
            Third base; milk products and poultry. Drink milk people. I know how uncommon it is for Malaysians to drink milk especially teenagers. You never know when u need it. Remember the susu kotak that we got from the government during our primary school? U shud have drank that instead of giving yr other friends. That was one of the nutritionist ways of promoting milk intake on during our younger age. I’m glad I drank mine, and my friend’s. susu kotak. Haha. No wonder I am way taller than my friends haha. Just kidding. Based on FGP, we are advised to drink at least 1 cup of milk in a day. We really need milk la, nanti osteoporosis o later age.
Next, poultry,fish et cetera. These are a protein group of food. Same with milk. One reminder, these kind of food are the best source of protein especially lean meat such as chicken breast. Tapi if u eat the skin sama ja macam u eat fat kan. So don’t eat the skin, eat the chicken breast meat. It’s good! Even if u’re about to eat it, constaint yrself from doing it! Don’t eat kfc!! Hehehe. For the food serving, u may want to check the FGP.
Lastly, bad bad bad group of food that u should avoid from eating it every day. Mostly, semua yang sedap sedap, paling sedap punya makanan ialah makanan yg paling banyak calories and fat. U shud consume food that is less in sugar, less in salt, less oil. And there u go, a good healthy body to live long.
            So, my conclusion is, eat good/variety of food. Don’t diet, it never works. Seriously. Exercise and make it a habit. U will appreciate it in yr late age. So I guess I need to stop writing now. I think this will be the longest post of mine. Lol. Ok bye.

04 April 2011

Sayonara :)

So yesterday was supposed to be a party day with my group which i called 7TH because they are seven of us..but only three can make it which was me myself, Dew and Dav..kinda sad others couldn’t make it,but its okay..o ya, we met Carol at Centre Point, she was working at one of the store there..pretty sad she can’t join us..

Dew is leaving KK for good, i don’t know why but i feel like she’s leaving very far away from here and i can hardly meet her after this..i’m happy i can see her for the last time before leaving.. glad i have a friend like her, she’s a very sweet petite girl with a gud intelligent brain..i’m sure she can be someone who people gonna look up to and make her as their inspiration . u know, she’s really had her goals in mind from the very beginning and work very hard to achieve it..

At the very beginning of our form 4 year, she didn’t go for science stream class eventho she knew she can get into that class, she knew it..she knew that what she wants is not in that class..and here we are, one of the top student in school…she made it..and im so proud of her.. no matter what happen, i will always support you dear friend..take care always and may our dear Lord bless you along the way up.. this is a special dedication for you are one of my bestfriend :)


waddup,its me.



with my girlfriends,all are awesomanizing pretty friends. Interest with one of them?pm me :p jk



with a bestfriend that gonna leaving KK soon..sob sob..





me,Dew and Dav at Waterfront, KK..


Sayonara,7TH..

26 February 2011

Out with the girls!

You know, i had never go jalan2 with my friends ,today is my first. And we had lotsa fun together. Went to Suria first for the karnival 'Jom Masuk U' then went to CP. We were supposed to go bowling but due to technical problem, it had been cancelled and change to karaoke time . Gila ehh, berteriak2 kami ooo bukan lagi menyanyi. But we do had our blast moment there. So thanks gal, we made it!!! I mean i make it to go jalan2 with u all!! kena marah juga sebab balik lambat tapi tidak apa pasal siok!!haha.



On our way to KK :)




Fake photoshoot in front of i-dunno-wat-the-movie-is board




Lepak-ing at the bowling centre at Palm Square





Karaoke time!!!





Some random picture taken,me so cantik here tats y post here,haha perasan o me :P


So,kesimpulannya ialah,kami banyak menghabiskan masa dengan ketawa,mengumpat dan memuji antara satu sama lain betapa telah berubahnya kami..hahahha.thanks dad,kasih benar sy keluar ne ari,siok ne.haha. Ok la itu saja sy maw bincang ne ari,bye~Thanks for reading! ^^

xoxo,Deidre-